Empathizing is an action that may not find its way in a classroom. Most educators and peers feel that one doesn’t need to empathize in order to move forward. But I have observed that it is the first need for humans.
We spend the better part of a day in a classroom. In my case, the classes are held in the evenings, after a long day’s work for the adult learners. What do students bring in apart from fatigue? Their stress, mental disturbances, work load to take home and house work like no babysitters at that time of the day, cooking and cleaning. And then, incomplete assignments. This is when we educators should step in. It is not about completing your lesson plan, it is about getting them connected. A good teacher instantly recognizes those who need attention, because that teacher could have undergone such testing times too. In such situations, I let others work by themselves and quietly take the student into the kitchen, a cup of tea or coffee for both and then change into a friend myself. But things don’t happen like magic. The teacher should win the confidence of the learner, and then only will the student open up and eases into sharing their troubles or worries which should be dealt with tactfully, all the while letting them know it happens to everyone, and share how to solve it. Or give them time to relax, I sometimes let them shed a tear, hug them if they allow to, or even pray with them if they are religious. Pronto! The student gets up before the teacher and proceeds towards the class. Never ever share it either with a colleague or another teacher, but if things are serious, then do it as with an anonymous client. Once the faith is lost, this will never happen with others, word spreads.
https://www.facebook.com/VCCSchoolOfInstructorEducation/ Here are few great links that cam strengthen my blog words. https://www.opencolleges.edu.au/informed/features/empathy-and-learning/
https://www.iacet.org/news/iacet-blog/blog-articles/5-keys-to-motivating-adults-to-learn-empathy/file:///
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